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Hmm…it`s been a long time I`ve not posted anything.
It seems I`m posting only when I`m emontionaly involved with something that had happened to me or made an impression on me.
Well,now I`m emotionally inspired
I found out that I`m a gossipper,intriguer and “talk too much”.
Sometimes that`s make me proud and gives me some high spirit that I know a lot about people and can find their weakness if I need to.However,sometimes-like these days ,that “sharing”(if I may call it like that) with other people, information about someone else ,made me feel the miserable thing in the world.
I feel so bad because I ’disconnect’ the friend relations between 2 persons,but I had to tell my best friend how her “friend” as he says so,mocking to her when she is not there.
Now the “friend” is mad on me because I made them on bad terms and I`m angry to my best friend because she betrayed me as she told him that I inform her about the whole sitution.
I always say that I`m glad that I have not the problems which other people at my age like love torments,family and friend problems.I maintaned that but now I see there are some of them in my life,too.
Although,I don`t take them seriously they could be prety much concerning.Because man without friends is like tree without roots,however pompous and funny that sound.
I was watching a film-prety simple plot,I think,but I found a “stalk” in it that made me think.
The film`s title -Employee of the month,it was about a man who became employee of the moth because a prety girl,bet his friends that he can do it and he do it,his grandma sees that he changes and she is glad.Then he starts to get what he want little by little but he lost his friends because of missed appointments and betrayments in the name of his aim.
However,in the end of the film he becomes the employee of the month but not because of the help of the prety girl or his grandma and because of his friends.They help him emotionaly and with actions.
It seems that only Lyd read my blog or just only Lyd post comments,so I`m expecting them
I think you have made the right thing saving your friend from facing out of sudden someday the mockery the other friend has had on her.Some things are not so hurtful if they are said carefully or in right way.I think you have saved that girl from much hurtful experience.
She was most probably frustrated.And when people are frustrated they are not quite adequate.Of course that’s not exceusement that that girl has put you on bad terms with the other girl…
And about the readers of your blog-that people don’t leave comments doesn’t mean they don’t read your thought.I read them but I feel uneasy to write in other people’s blogs(even at Lyd’s).I hope you will start writing more often here:)I’ll enjoy that
thank you for leaving me your opinion:)
were they both good friends of yours? perhaps it could have been better if you had talked to the other friend and told him that you would not like to listen to him talking behind people’s backs. you could have refused to take part in a conversation in which people are talking bad things about other people.
well, sometimes it’s necessary to discuss bad things about someone behind his back … if you are at a loss and need advise on how to deal with some conflict, etc. so, talking about someone is not necessarily a bad thing. it depends on your motivation and purpose.
do you feel you should have acted differently?
and the comment of one of the your classmates tania
I can’t uderstand for who you talking abot,who is the mistery man who said the bad things abot you?????But sometimes we have to talk about our
suspicions to this man in him eyes and even if necessery to do comflikt.If we will feel better.Silence isn’t golden sometimes!!That is from me but we will talk about this and personally, I hope!But I know that it is easier to talk about important things in some letter, for example,and to the other language,too.See soon,or write soon maybe!!! plama